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Understand the options before choosing a direction.

Not every separation leads to an immediate sale. Here are three common starting points, the information that tends to help with each, and who answers which questions.

Comparison of options

Considering a sale

Useful information
  • Comparable sales and competing listings
  • Preparation that may be worth doing
  • Estimated categories of selling cost
  • Possible listing and completion timing
Questions to ask next
  • How would showings work while someone lives there?
  • What would we each need to agree on first?
  • What would remain after mortgage payout and costs?
Relevant advisers
Real estate professional · Family lawyer · Lender

Exploring whether one person keeps the home

Useful information
  • Current market information as a reference point
  • Whether an independent appraisal may be needed
  • The mortgage balance and terms
Questions to ask next
  • Could the person staying qualify for the financing?
  • Which valuation will the advisers rely on?
  • What happens if keeping the home does not work out?
Relevant advisers
Lender or mortgage professional · Family lawyer · Appraiser, if required

Still gathering information

Useful information
  • A general sense of the local market
  • What a sale would involve, step by step
  • Which documents and details are worth locating
Questions to ask next
  • What do we need to know before choosing a direction?
  • Are there agreements affecting timing?
  • Who needs to be part of decisions about the property?
Relevant advisers
Family lawyer · Real estate professional for market information · Financial adviser, if helpful

This page does not describe what either person is entitled to. Your lawyer advises on that; your lender advises on financing.

If a sale is one of the possibilities

It helps to understand what the market is likely to support and what the process would involve before deciding. A market assessment can explain a potential range and the reasoning behind it, but no sale price or completion date can be promised.

Not sure which option fits yet?

A short conversation about the market and the property can help you decide which questions to take to your advisers.